Never Think You Can Convince A Man Into Being In A Relationship With You By Ladyginger

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Women make this mistake a lot of times thinking that a man can be convinced into being in a relationship with them ,Knowing fully well that this man has made it clear from the jump that he is not looking into getting into a serious relationship but feels comfortable around you ,

By him just saying this mere words ,women think they stand a chance to convince him ,meanwhile some men are just dishonest people they want to eat their cake and have it ,.

So that when the relationship or friendship as the call it doesn’t benefit them anymore or they start to get cold fits they will then start by telling you that they never were in a relationship with you . Which sadly is true .but men also know how to not catch feelings and just be playing along because it is very common for a man to be sleeping with a woman and not be in love with her .

But because for we women the more we stay with a man the more comfortable with get around them and the feelings just keep growing and because there is always that thing that just keeps telling us that he will change we will stop looking at the red flags and just take whatever is been thrown at us

I mostly feel very sad whenever I talk about woman and relationship , I have been there myself ,there was a time I never new the things I know now ,I use to be so lost that I will give whatever it takes just to keep a man ,I was doing all this at the detriment of my happiness and he is not even aware because the amount of energy i invest in the relationship is not the amount he invests ,And in relationship they both parties are supposed to treat each other and invest accordingly so the efforts can be appreciated

I know it’s not easy to let go ,I know it’s not easy to be alone ,but trust me when I tell you that it is better to be alone than to be with the wrong person. Truth be told there is always that one person for everyone you just need to evaluate yourself and learn not to base your happiness on others ,or on relationship and family, when you learn to make yourself happy and be patient enough to wait for that right person

You get to feel the joy and love that it can bring

Love is a good thing we just need to know how to love .

I hope this helps you

The End.