In a relationship women tend to think that they are cleaver enough to date more than one guy ,,
Forgetting that at some point they will end up getting cut up in their own lies
What do I mean it is easier for a man to sleep with at least more than 3 different women in a day and date more than 10 at once without feeling guilty, you know why ? Because men cheat with their d**k and not their heart but women cheat with their heart ,,so the moment a woman sleeps with another guy there is a possibility that she already has fallen out of love with you ,,
You see when I hear people say that ,sleeping with a Sugar Dady for the benefit of it ,and still loving a younger person is a risky business because the truth is this man is aware of everything you do he just choose to keep collecting your money that you just worked for
And must of you keep wondering why they leave you at the end of day
Knowing that you have made sacrifice for them ,but sadly they are not even aware of it ,which makes it pointless
In a relationship you partner should know when you make sacrifices for them ,this helps them come to a better understanding of you ,
And be more considerate
But when you are busy sleeping with married men up and down thinking you are helping him by not imposing bill on him and you want to claim the i gat my mans back when you honestly don’t ,any love that will come at the detriment of your integrity and your self worth is not worth it at all ,trust me when I tell you this
If he is a struggling young man that you love look for other legit ways to make your money ,sleeping with other men just to support him is never the best option,I don’t have issues with one being supportive towards their spouse but you have to understand that when they do find out you will be at a great loss
And that is we’re depression kicks in
And then you start feeling like a pis of sh*t you start to blame him for living you ,my sister he owns you nothing ,,you choose to do this things ,he didn’t beg you ,he didn’t force you ,,if the relationship doesn’t work or meet up with your requirements move on please,some compromise is not necessary,,,
And if as a woman you feel the need to be independent,please do this all by yourself,and when you are almost established look for that man ,,you can’t eat your cake and have it ,,very few get away with this
And when you check the statistics of how many of those marriages made it to 5 years it’s very slim ,,so why go through all this ,,love is a beautiful thing like I will always say you just need to be true to yourself.
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